Kunci kebahagiaan

Kunci kebahagiaan

 Aku dah ada duit banyak,mkn cukup,ada rumah,ada kereta, dan ada kerja. Kerja yang memberi gaji tinggi, tapi kenapa masih lagi aku rasa x bahagia.
Duit banyak dalam bank, tapi x boleh nak dapat apa yang aku nak.
Rasa sayang timbul dalam hati nak guna duit tu, takut habis.
Apa masalah dengan aku ni?
Selalu je rasa x cukup?
Bukan ke duit banyak boleh jadi hidup senang?

Itulah yang selalu hadir dalam diri kita semua kan.
Kita dah buat apa yang orang sruh, kerja kuat dapat duit banyak,hidup bahagia.
Tapi masalahnya dunia tidak sebegitu.
Dunia lagi kejam dari itu.

Kau dapat duit banyak,tapi sayang nak guna takut habis.
Kau dapat kerja bagus, tapi selalu balik lambat,x cukup tidur, selalu stress hingga nak pergi kerja malas.pergi pon sebab terpaksa.
Kau ada rumah besar,tapi hanya duduk lam sejam dua je sehari.

Apa kena dengan diri kau ni?

Percaya atau tidak, inilah realiti hidup dunia.
Kita senang sekejap sahaja. Tapi seksaannya lama.
Dapat gaji sehari ,tapi merana 29hari.
Nampak penipuan disitu?

Habis tu? Apa yang perlu saya buat?

Senang sahaja.
Jawapannya, jangan hidup.
Jangan hidup? Macam mana tu?
Jangan hidup di dunia, hidup di akhirat.
Dunia ni memang pahit, itu hakikat. Kau kena telan, jangan kemam lama2. Nanti pahit lidah haha.
Formula untuk setel masalah dunia ni senang sahaja.

Pertama ingat mati.
Bila kau ingat kau akan mati, dan tinggalkan dunia ni. X ada apa yang akan kau risau.
Kita datang kat dunia ini miskin dan x bawa apa2, nanti kita meninggal kita jadi miskin balik, x bawak satu pon harta atau masalah dunia ni.

Kedua banyakkan amal dan jangan tinggal solat.
Yang ni kau boleh pikir sendiri.
Walau macam mana sibok pon, jangan tinggal solat,
Kita boleh tahan dari dipecat kerja, tapi boleh ke kita tahan dipecat dari Syurga?

Ketiga kira balik berapa harta yang kau ada.
Yup,kira balik brape juta harta kau yg ada. Harta yang kau guna adan yang tidak diguna. Kau akan dapati lagi banyak benda yang kau x gunakan. Hanya beli sebab nafsu dan nak simpan lam stor. Kumpulkan semua yang dah x guna tu dan bagi kat orang lain. Dengan kurangnya barang lam rumah kau, kau akan rasa lagi clear untuk berfikir dan rumah pon x messy.
Live a minimalist style.

Keempat.
Follow blog ni untuk tips2 kebahagiaan

Kelima  ,ucap benda yang paling susah dalam dunia.
Maaf dan terima kasih.
Jika mulut kau masih keras untuk ucapkan benda ni. Say goodbye la kat kebahagiaan kau. X dapat den nak menolong.
Nak buat benda ni kena ada hati yang jujur dan ikhlas.
Bukan hati busuk dan berkarat.
Bersihkan hati tu dengan zikir dan sedekah.

Okay macam tulah first step nak bahagia.
Kalau nak lagi kasi like sikit.

Dan ingatlah Allah setiap ketika.
Jangan tinggal solat dan zakat.
Kerana kita ini hamba.

Minta maaf dan terima kasih.

You Avoid Difficult Conversations?

How to Take Charge and Make Your Voice Heard

Most people encounter a time in their life when
they have to engage in difficult conversations
for any number of reasons. However, people tend
to dread initiating difficult conversations and
as a result delay them as long as possible.

However, when difficult conversations are delayed
they often become even more problematic. Difficult
conversations often include confrontations,
complicated subject matters, extreme emotions,
and plenty of other reasons that make people fear
them.

However, you can learn how to initiate and handle
difficult conversations without fear or anxiety
by simply initiating the following tips.

1. Make Time

The first hurdle people encounter when it comes
to initiating difficult conversations is time. It
is too easy to say you do not have time for the
conversation, simply because you want to avoid
it. However, ask yourself when you do have time
and then schedule a meeting for a specific time.

By doing this you are creating a time for the
awkward conversations to occur and will not be
able to back away.

2. How Will You Express Your Views

Difficult conversations do not have to be tense
or anticipated with anxiety. In fact, you should
think about what you want to say, ask, or learn
from tricky conversations before you begin so
you will know how to start and guide the
conversation. Also, you will not forget to ask
specific questions if you have prepared ahead of
time.

3. Focus on the Situation

When it comes to difficult conversations it is
also very important to focus on the situation at
hand instead of the person. This will allow you
to get through the conversation without upsetting
the individual unnecessarily.

Awkward conversations are difficult enough
without bringing specific people into it, simply
focus on the situation at hand. Also, do not
allow past events to come into the conversation
either, especially if you have already discussed
these.

4. Goals

What are you hoping to achieve from the difficult
conversations you must initiate? Set clear goals
for yourself before initiating awkward
conversations so you will know where you are
going and when you have met specific goals.

By doing this you will have an outline for your
conversation. Also, you will know if you have
been successful or not by whether or not your
goals were met.

Difficult conversations will always be difficult,
but you do not have to be scared of them or put
them off when you can simply learn some tools to
help you through them.

Follow these tips and make sure you are always
calm, cool, and collect when entering into
potentially tense conversations in order to have the
perspective and presence of mind to engage in the
conversation.

What else can you do?

Excellent communications skills are your ticket to more
fun, laughter and happiness. To have more special moments
and great evenings out you only need to master one crucial
set of skills - people skills.

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